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Ep. 248 Comparing Yourself to Others: The Inner Goddess Sumo Wrestling Match

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Are you constantly comparing yourself to others? How can we break free from the comparison trap? In this episode, Katie explores the taboo inner thoughts of comparison, jealousy and insecurity that keep us disconnected from ourselves and each other. Then she shares a simple, powerful Tantric practice to free yourself from comparison and cultivate genuine sisterhood!

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In this episode about comparing yourself to others, you’ll hear:

~ An invitation to book a call with one of our coaches if you’d like to learn more about our Ayurveda School!

~ What does it actually mean to be a “girls girl?”

~ Why comparing yourself to others is so common

~ Shining a light on unconscious survival strategies

~ The Vedic concepts of Sampradaya, Swasta and Tapas

~ Opening to feelings of rejection

~ How to ego keeps score

~ Jealousy as helpful information

~ The positive and negative aspects of gossip

~ Invisible dominance

~ Comparison is the enemy of our soul

~ Rosalyn L. Bruyere quote, “The one with the biggest aura wins.”

~ Being in your own energy

~ The limitless supply of prana and love

~ What is in the way of my being able to celebrate other women?

~ A tantric practice to free yourself from comparison to others

~ How to do shadow work around comparing yourself to others

~ Letting your energy speak

~ Join our free DIY Goddess Beauty Lab Webinar on July 16th!

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Check out these related episodes:

~ Ep. 202 Panchakarma, Snoop Dogg and Sisterhood with Laurel Odom

~ Ep. 235 Why Ghee Is the Quiet Psychedelic

Connect with Katie and The Shakti School:

~ Learn more about Ayurveda School!

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

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Ep. 230 Coming Home to Your Authentic Self with Kara Liebrock

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Today on the podcast, Katie is joined by Kara Liebrock. Kara is an Alignment Guide, host of The Elements of Evolution podcast and a Shakti School graduate! In today’s conversation, they explore the Ayurvedic concept of Svasta, the state of being fully established in your authentic self, and what it means to live from your authentic center.

Katie and Kara discuss how the body serves as a gateway to the divine, the seven layers of the body (Koshas), and how emotional armoring and emotional constipation can block our vitality. They also unpack how our romantic relationships mirror our connection to the divine, revealing deep insights into feminine and masculine dynamics and how to build healthy partnerships.

Join Katie LIVE on Tuesday, November 11th, at 11 am Eastern US Time for a FREE webinar - Healing the Nervous System with Somatic Ayurveda! Click here to sign up!

In this episode about coming home to your authentic self, you’ll hear:

~ Registration for Ayurveda School 2026 is now open! Click here to learn more.

~ The Ayurvedic concept of Svasta

~ Accessing your authentic self

~ The body as the gateway to divinity

~ Getting stuck in a self-help hole

~ The 7 layers of the body according to Ayurveda, aka Koahas

~ Emotional constipation

~ Clearing and revitalizing the energy body

~ Shifting from reactive to responsive

~ What are emotions, really?

~ Emotional armoring

~ Establishing a home inside your authentic self

~ The work of Thich Nhat Hanh

~ When you feel like you’re doing more than your partner

~ How our romantic relationships reveal our relationship to the divine

~ The different desires of the inner feminine and masculine

~ Why some men feel challenged by strong women

~ Being your authentic self in your partnership

~ What are you feeding in your relationship?

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

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Connect with Kara Liebrock and The Shakti School:

~ Connect with Kara on Instagram and her website

~ Listen to Kara’s podcast, The Elements of Evolution

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ 2026 Chakra Yoga Nidra Retreat: Deep dive into the chakras with Katie as your guide in the Bahamas in spring 2026!

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

Related episodes to help you reconnect with your authentic self:

~ Ep. 60 The Emotional Body: A Portal into Vulnerability & Authenticity

~ Ep. 124 From Negative Self-Talk to TRUE Self

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Ep. 210 The Drama Triangle: Why it’s Wrecking Your Relationships and How to End It

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Do you want to create more healthy relationships with your partner, family, co-workers and friends? In today’s episode, Katie shares a powerful framework for understanding your patterns in relationships, the Drama Triangle. It’s time to shine a light on the unconscious patterns that are sabotaging your relationships so you can get out of the Drama Triangle!

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In this episode about the Drama Triangle, you’ll hear:

~ An invitation to study with us in Ayurveda School!

~ What is the Drama Triangle?

~ Psychiatrist Stephen Karpman

~ Are there really so many narcissists?

~ The danger of labeling and “othering” people

~ Dissolving the labels you’ve given yourself

~ Characteristics of our inner victim, perpetrator and rescuer

~ Carl Jung's theory of projection

~ How to identify when you’re projecting

~ The Vedic concept of Samsara

~ How to recognise when you’re playing the victim, perpetrator or rescuer in your relationship

~ Examples of common dysfunctional relationship patterns

~ How to break free from the Drama Triangle

~ The Jungian concept of self-integration

~ How to develop more mature, healthy relationships

~ Awareness as a digestive enzyme

~ Taking radical responsibility for our feelings

~ Get our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda for Women!

Other resources mentioned in this episode:

~ 2025 Chakra Yoga Nidra Workshop: Study with Katie and other luminary teachers this fall in the Bahamas!

~ 2026 Chakra Yoga Nidra Retreat: Deep dive into the chakras with Katie as your guide in the beautiful Bahamas in spring 2026!

~ Sign up for our newsletter on our website

~ Follow us on Instagram and Facebook

~ Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy

Episodes related to the Drama Triangle:

~ Ep. 178 Boundaries

~ Ep. 198 Family Archetypes: Understanding the Thanksgiving Dinner Table Dynamics

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Ep. 199 Conscious Relationships and Modern Dating with Angelica Neri

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If you’re a spiritual gal navigating the wild world of modern dating or you want to improve the health of your current relationship, don’t miss this episode! Last week we asked you, dear listener, to send us your questions about dating and relationships. This week, Katie and Ayurvedic Practitioner, Angelica Neri, answer your questions! They vulnerably share lessons they’ve learned and advice to help you develop healthy, conscious relationships.

Want to learn more about how to stay grounded in a sea of complicated human relationships? Register for our FREE Liberating Yourself from Family Archetypes webinar! Click here to join us live on December 13th or receive the replay!

This episode will also be airing on The Divine Feminine Healer's Podcast.

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In this episode, you’ll hear:

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

~ What is a conscious relationship?

~ Are women more conscious and spiritual than men?

~ What if my partner isn’t spiritual?

~ The discord between our primal brains and dating apps

~ Why many people marry their “unfinished business”

~ The missing divine connection in most romantic relationships

~ Maintaining your sense of self in relationships

~ The matured inner masculine and inner feminine

~ How the chakras influence our romantic life

~ Signs you are (or aren’t) in a conscious relationship

~ Click here to learn more about our Divine Feminine Ayurveda School

Other resources mentioned in this episode:

~ Find Angelica's reiki certification program and other offerings on her website

~ Follow Angelica on Instagram

~ Angelica interviewing Katie on The Divine Feminine Healer's Podcast

~ Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

Related episodes:

~ Ep. 130 Can Dating NOT Suck These Days?

~ Ep. 178 Boundaries

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Ep. 178 Boundaries

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Do you have a hard time saying ‘no’ when someone asks for help? Maybe you want to do all the things now that spring has sprung! Unfortunately, when we lack strong boundaries we can easily overextend ourselves because we’re not intentional about our ‘yeses’ and ‘nos.’

In this week’s solo episode, Katie helps you identify the areas of your life that would benefit from boundaries. Learn how to set healthy boundaries so you can show up with more love and truth in your life and relationships!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

~ How to start setting boundaries

~ Why the most important boundaries are internal

~ What NOT to do when setting boundaries

~ Reflection questions to help you determine what boundaries to set

~ Good boundaries for your nervous system

~ The difference between trying to control others and healthy boundaries

~ How to find your weak spot

~ Why having strong boundaries is key to lovingly and honest relationships

~ How boundaries expose the quality of your relationships

~ Ready to go deeper? Sign up for our free mini-course on Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda

~ If you’re a former Level 1 Shakti School graduate, don’t miss our Level 2 Ayurvedic Health Counselor training program starting on April 9th, 2024!

Other links mentioned in this episode:

~ Sign up for our newsletter on our website

~ Follow us on Instagram and Facebook

~ Katie’s new book, Glow-Worthy: Practices for Awakening Your Inner Light and Loving Yourself as You Are—Broken, Beautiful, and Sacred is available now!

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Ep. 158 Fit Fabulous Fall: Beat the Late Summer Bummers!

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How to stay fit, fabulous, and juicy as the dog days of summer transition into fall.

In this episode, Katie shares her favorite late summer and early fall anti-aging tips! This isn’t your typical fall self-care. We dive deep into how the ancient Ayurvedic healers approached this transitional time of year and how they stayed energized and youthful into old age. Learn Katie’s favorite self-care practices to increase your health and fabulousness this fall and beyond!

In this episode you’ll hear: 

~ Ways to navigate the vulnerable transition from summer to fall

~ What is Ayur-guilt?

~ Ways to get healthier as we age

~ The #1 anti-aging medicine on the planet

~ Katie’s top sleep hacks

~ We hope to see you at our FREE Fall Routines & Rituals webinar on September 29th

~ Level 1 Ayurveda School is open for registration, at the lowest early bird tuition price! Click here to learn more, register, or book a call with a graduate of the program. Payment plans abound!

 

Other links mentioned in this episode:

~ Mad Fit on YouTube

~ Find all the herbs mentioned in this podcast (Triphala, Brahmi, Manjistha , and Amalaki) over at Banyan Botanicals. Use code Katie15 at checkout for 15% off your order!

~ Find the Paavani Vata Body Oil here

~ Listen to Katie’s Glow-Worthy meditation here

~ Katie’s Sleep Stack > Low dose melatonin, GABA, Taurine, L-Theanine, Lemon Balm 

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Ep. 157 How We Squirm Off Our Chance to Really Love (Tantra Talks #7)

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This episode is a bootleg broadcast from the Spirit Sessions Membership, our members-only live monthly workshop.

This episode is all about self-love! Not the self-love that includes massaging our breasts with coconut oil and reminding ourselves that we’re a goddess (although we love this daily ritual). Instead, we’re opening our hearts and deepening our understanding of self-love through conversation and integration.

In this episode you’ll hear: 

~ How we become adept at wiggling away from ourselves, the present moment and our bodies

~ What is ‘the spot’?

~ How we become aware of the way we squirm away from ‘the spot’

~ Ways to return to ourselves and be with what is actually there in the moment

~ Level 1 Ayurveda School is open for registration, at the lowest early bird tuition price! Click here to learn more, register, or book a call with a graduate of the program. Payment plans abound!

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Ep. 156 Not Your New Age Mama’s Manifestation

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Join Katie and her dear mentor and friend Cristal Mortensen for a conversation about manifestation. Manifestation is both what we do and are, so by opening more deeply to our true selves, we can experience more of what we want in life. Learn why the common approaches to thinking and feeling your way to manifestation don’t work for most people, and what to do instead.

Cristal leads us through a powerful guided practice that you can use to begin manifesting today!

In this episode you’ll hear: 

~ What is manifestation?

~ How our heart is the bridge between reality and limitless possibility

~ You are manifesting right now and all the time

~ How to honor the universal struggle of dissatisfaction, “not enough,” and inner poverty

~ The spontaneous arising of what we want vs. “forcing it”

~ Feeling difficult emotions without being swallowed by them

~ How desire and not having are two sides of the same coin

~ Why we don’t need to avoid negative thoughts and feelings to manifest

~ Why Katie calls herself a “recovering manifester”

~ How to liberate and loosen our perception of ourselves and the world

~ Experiencing the process of becoming (unmanifest to manifest)

~ How to manifest from feminine energy

~ The importance of the energetic, etheric realm in manifesting

~ Getting in touch with our deeper desires and questions

~ A guided practice to begin manifesting today!

~ Join us inside The Shakti School for Cristal’s 8-week course, Energy 101. Learn how to work with your body's energy to heal, vitalize and awaken to spirit! Moreover, this course will provide the framework for working with your own energy and bringing these techniques into your own healing arts practice while working with others.

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