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Ep. 198 Family Archetypes: Understanding the Thanksgiving Dinner Table Dynamics

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You’ve done the inner work and matured spiritually, yet as soon as your family gathers for the holidays you feel like a little kid again and revert to the same old, dysfunctional family dynamics! Just in time for Thanksgiving, Katie shares how family archetypes affect our relationships and how you can start creating more healthy family dynamics this holiday season.

Learn how to approach your next family gathering with the mind of a yogini so you can unravel generational karma and have more compassion toward yourself and others.

Want to dive even deeper into family archetypes? You’re invited to join Katie LIVE on Friday, December 13th for our FREE Liberating Yourself from Family Archetypes webinar! Click here to register. Everyone registered will also receive the recording!

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In this episode about family archetypes, you’ll hear:

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~ What is an archetype?

~ The Ayurvedic and Jungian perspectives of family archetypes

~ How to approach your family like a yogini

~ Family frameworks as coping mechanisms

~ The ego's role in family archetypes

~ How to identify the role you play in your family

~ Common family archetypes including the Caretaker, Whipping Boy, Black Sheep, Hero and Clown

~ Shifting out of the victim mindset

~ Why understanding creates compassion

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Related episodes:

~ Ep. 174 Explore Your Inner Child with Nicole Frolick

~ Ep. 160 Courage in Facing the Shadow

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Ep. 66 You Can’t Be Yo’Mamas Guru

Ever had the experience of telling a family member about a new thing you were doing, or giving them advice about something you’d spent so many hours researching only to be met with apathy, or worse, resentment? That’s the Catch-22 of family. Tune in for my insights and techniques for explaining yourself and your lifestyle choices to your family.

In this episode you’ll hear:

~How to talk to your family about your lifestyle choices

~Techniques for teaching Ayurveda

~A blessing song for before meals

~Why it’s hard to teach your family

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🌶️ Fire cider to stoke immunity, circulation and digestion when cold damp weather weakens agni. 

🫖 Neti pot rinses. I mix warm water with ¼ teaspoon sea salt and one tiny drop of oregano essential oil to clear the sinuses, support lung health and prevent winter congestion.

☁️ Steam ceremony: Fill a pot with boiling water, add 3 drops eucalyptus essential oil, cover your head with a towel, and breathe deeply for 5–10 minutes, allowing emotion and congestion to gently release.

☀️ Vitamin C, D and triphala to support immunity, gut health and daily detox during low-light months.

🌿Tulsi, elderberry, licorice, turmeric and nettle teas to nourish immunity, soothe the nervous system and keep tissues hydrated.

🔴 Red light therapy to regulate the nervous system, lift mood and counteract seasonal depletion.

🎥 Extra sleep and genuinely funny movies to downshift cortisol and remind your body it’s safe (do not underestimate their power)!

🥩 Make lots of soups, broths, collagen and gelatin-rich meals to keep everything juicy in the vata season of cold and artificial heating systems! 

🍯 Manuka honey blends with turmeric, black pepper, cayenne and licorice to soothe the throat + provide support immunity.

🛁 Cycle epsom salt and sea salt baths. One night I do 2 cups epsom, the next I do 1 cup sea salt. Add a bit of your favorite body oil and essential oils for added glow!

🎁 Get excited about the gifts you will give, rather than get. Give to charity. 

🥂 Divest from excess alcohol and excess online spending. INVEST in visiting the sauna! 

👟 Boost your energy, move your lymph and stay connected to Mama Nature with gentle winter walks. 

❄️ Avoid raw, cold foods and icy drinks (like salads, cold smoothies, etc.!) 

🧣 Wear warming and bright colors and ditch black clothing! Invite more light with candles, ghee lamps or by making a fire.

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Sending infinite love to you and yours this holiday season. 🫀🙏🏼🌲🌟🕯

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