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Ep. 225 Tea with Your Shadow Self: From Self-Sabotage to Self-Compassion with Carly Banks

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What if you invited the parts of yourself that you dislike the most to tea? At The Shakti School, we believe that part of our purpose here on earth is to learn how to truly, fully love ourselves and others. In today’s episode, Katie discusses how we can embody the teachings of Ayurveda, Yoga and Tantra in order to shine a light on our shadow self and become a true yogini, aka a woman who is whole and complete unto herself.

This recording is from a recent session hosted by Carly Banks. Carly is an incredible Ayurveda educator and founder of The Habit Ayurveda!

Learn with Katie LIVE! Join us for a free online workshop called Divine Feminine Ayurveda 101, on Monday, October 6th, at 11 am ET. Click here to sign up!

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In this episode about the shadow self and much more, you’ll hear:

~ An invitation to join our Ayurveda School! Click here to learn more and enroll.

~ The deeper meanings of the Sanskrit word Yoga 

~ Living disconnected from the heart 

~ The Ayurvedic definition of health 

~ Ways we continuously abandon ourselves 

~ Opening to our suffering and shadow self 

~ Why peace is not the goal of spiritual practice 

~ The Vedic concept of Karuṇā 

~ Avoiding common misunderstandings and misuses of Ayurveda 

~ Why we often self-sabotage any time we try to better ourselves

~ Learning to have your own back

~ Why dignity is your superpower

~ Life-changing questions to ask yourself 

~ What is a yogini? 

~ How working with your energy can radically affect your health 

~ Identifying your reactivity patterns

~ Getting to know your shadow self

~ What are Shakti and Shiva?

~ How the feminine flows in cycles

~ The three-legged stool of health

~ Our relationship to food is our relationship to mothering 

~ A guided grounding meditation practice

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

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Connect with Carly Banks and The Shakti School:

~ Check out Carly’s community, The Habit Ayurveda

~ Follow Carly Banks on Instagram

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ 2026 Chakra Yoga Nidra Retreat: Deep dive into the chakras with Katie as your guide in the Bahamas in spring 2026!

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

~ The Shakti School Membership

Other episodes about the shadow self:

~ Ep. 160 Courage in Facing the Shadow

~ Ep. 124 From Negative Self-Talk to TRUE Self

 

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From my heart to yours,

Katie

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One of my favorite things about this spiritually-minded Ayurveda school is that we have no gurus and no perfect saints. But what we do have is an inner conviction that it is possible for a woman to live from a place of deep connection to something that is far sweeter, far more powerful and far wiser than we could ever possibly imagine with our conscious, limited mind. ⁠
This is the realm of the HER mystery. This is soul-level, deep-psyche living. ⁠
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In 2026, we are calling in the imperfect, less-than-saintly women. We would love to support you in coming home to what may be a forgotten truth—that you are, in this moment now, deserving of living from your Soul. ⁠
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It requires no effort, accolades or fancy manifesting techniques. ⁠
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It doesn’t have to be earned. It is here now in abundance.⁠
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No need for holy gurus or perfect saints. Just you and this moment. ⁠
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This is your last chance to join us for a year of revolutionary, Feminine Form Ayurveda.⁠
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Xo, ⁠
Katie and Team Shakti ⁠
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💖 Comment AYURVEDASCHOOL to get in now. ⁠
🌝 If you have any questions, drop us a line at info@theshaktischool.com.
School starts today at 2 PM! Who’s coming? 🌊💓🙌🏻🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🐾🌙🌙👏👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏🙏✨✨✨
When ladies first join our Ayurveda School, they a When ladies first join our Ayurveda School, they are excited to learn the herbs, philosophy, food, spices, oils, Ancient texts and modern tools for preventative holistic health. ⁠
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But what they are often less aware of is how much this devotional kind of learning will make them laugh. And cry. Or how deeply human this path would feel.⁠
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Ayurveda, at its best, is not stiff or solemn.⁠
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It’s intimate.⁠
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It’s awkward.⁠
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It’s humbling.⁠
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It meets you right where your life actually is.⁠
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At Shakti Ayurveda School, we learn big things, yes. But we also:⁠
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Laugh at ourselves when our icky patterns show up (again).⁠
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Cry when our souls finally feel seen.⁠
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Tell the truth about working with shadow emotions.⁠
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Heal alongside women who can become friends for life.⁠
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This work touches your digestion and your heart.⁠
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Your nervous system and your relationships.⁠
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Your purpose and your body image.⁠
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Your past and your becoming.⁠
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Some days you’ll be taking notes.⁠
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Some days you’ll be having realizations you didn’t see coming.⁠
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Some days you’ll laugh so hard you forget you were afraid to begin.⁠
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That’s the magic.⁠
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Ayurveda isn’t about becoming “better.”⁠
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It’s about becoming more yourself - with more ease, humor and compassion along the way.⁠
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And from the chief-cryer in charge. ⁠
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I can promise you, we do it with love and sometimes Kleenex,⁠
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Katie 💛
For those of you still on the fence about it…⁠ For those of you still on the fence about it…⁠
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Let me tell you the truth about what happens after Ayurveda School for so many of our women. ⁠
Not what you learn (which is a TON).⁠
Not the modules (which are gold you can keep for a lifetime).⁠
Not the certification to be a coach (which you will get!).⁠
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But who you become. And what you will feel at the end. ⁠
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💎A woman who opens kindly to her body instead of being at war with it.⁠
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💎A woman who has learned how to open to the parts of her she has been avoiding and running from (often without even knowing it).⁠
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💎A woman who stops outsourcing her authority to trends, protocols or other people’s opinions and starts listening to her inner voice. ⁠
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💎A woman who is deeply awake to her mind/body type and how she can use the gifts and superpowers of her uniqueness instead of being held back. ⁠
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💎A woman with better fertility, digestion, skin, emotional balance, sleep, regulation and mental clarity.⁠
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💎A woman who is surrounded by her Ayurveda-school friends (aka cheerleaders) who may be in her life and business forever. ⁠
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💎A woman who - if she chooses - is deeply empowered to rock her Ayurveda as a coach out in the world, earning her value and impacting her community in ways that feel meaningful, fun and aligned with her higher purpose. ⁠
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💎A woman who is more at home in her own skin.⁠
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💎A woman who finally knows how to nourish her nervous system, hormones, belly and heart. ⁠
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💎A woman who is less reactive. More patient. More fun. More joyful. More discerning. More spacious. And more dignified. ⁠
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💎Lastly, a woman who feels she is in her nadi - this is a Sanskrit word for RIVER. It means: She who is in her HOLY FLOW. Life isn't perfect but she is in the direct center of her soul’s best evolutionary path. ⁠
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I want you to feel and be who you were meant to become in 2026. ⁠
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Meet me on Zoom in 24 hours. This is your invitation home.
And it brings me to tears of just how PROUD I am o And it brings me to tears of just how PROUD I am of this school. ⁠
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When you say YES to Shakti Ayurveda School (we start tomorrow!), you’ll receive:⁠
🌿 Live “Ayurveda Wednesdays” with me and our faculty, with replays available anytime⁠
🌿 Long-term access so you can evolve at your own pace⁠
🌿 Twelve in-depth modules, dozens of classes, live Q+A, and bonus teachings⁠
🌿 Monthly guided meditations to support your energy, clarity and integration⁠
🌿 A private community of women devoted to growth, honesty and mutual uplift⁠
🌿 A sacred sisterhood that feels surprisingly like coming home⁠
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I would love for you to get to know me, my team, and this work more deeply.⁠
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Don’t wait - the doors are about to close. Listen to that nudge. Join us. ⁠
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💗 Comment AYURVEDASCHOOL or find all the details in our bio.

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