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Ep. 225 Tea with Your Shadow Self: From Self-Sabotage to Self-Compassion with Carly Banks

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What if you invited the parts of yourself that you dislike the most to tea? At The Shakti School, we believe that part of our purpose here on earth is to learn how to truly, fully love ourselves and others. In today’s episode, Katie discusses how we can embody the teachings of Ayurveda, Yoga and Tantra in order to shine a light on our shadow self and become a true yogini, aka a woman who is whole and complete unto herself.

This recording is from a recent session hosted by Carly Banks. Carly is an incredible Ayurveda educator and founder of The Habit Ayurveda!

Learn with Katie LIVE! Join us for a free online workshop called Divine Feminine Ayurveda 101, on Monday, October 6th, at 11 am ET. Click here to sign up!

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In this episode about the shadow self and much more, you’ll hear:

~ An invitation to join our Ayurveda School! Click here to learn more and enroll.

~ The deeper meanings of the Sanskrit word Yoga 

~ Living disconnected from the heart 

~ The Ayurvedic definition of health 

~ Ways we continuously abandon ourselves 

~ Opening to our suffering and shadow self 

~ Why peace is not the goal of spiritual practice 

~ The Vedic concept of Karuṇā 

~ Avoiding common misunderstandings and misuses of Ayurveda 

~ Why we often self-sabotage any time we try to better ourselves

~ Learning to have your own back

~ Why dignity is your superpower

~ Life-changing questions to ask yourself 

~ What is a yogini? 

~ How working with your energy can radically affect your health 

~ Identifying your reactivity patterns

~ Getting to know your shadow self

~ What are Shakti and Shiva?

~ How the feminine flows in cycles

~ The three-legged stool of health

~ Our relationship to food is our relationship to mothering 

~ A guided grounding meditation practice

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

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Connect with Carly Banks and The Shakti School:

~ Check out Carly’s community, The Habit Ayurveda

~ Follow Carly Banks on Instagram

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ 2026 Chakra Yoga Nidra Retreat: Deep dive into the chakras with Katie as your guide in the Bahamas in spring 2026!

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

~ The Shakti School Membership

Other episodes about the shadow self:

~ Ep. 160 Courage in Facing the Shadow

~ Ep. 124 From Negative Self-Talk to TRUE Self

 

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From my heart to yours,

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One of the biggest questions I get from women expl One of the biggest questions I get from women exploring our program is “What can I actually do with an Ayurvedic coaching certification? What’s the scope of a coaching practice?”⁠
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Becoming a certified coach is absolutely a viable career path, and it can also enhance the offerings that you already have. 🌿⁠
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🌬️ Guiding people through nutrition education, daily routines, seasonal resets, meditation and nervous system support⁠
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🥀 Supporting women with cycle awareness, womb wellness and feminine rhythm education⁠
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💗 Using Ayurveda first and foremost for your own life, and letting your lived experience become your medicine⁠
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Working as an Ayurvedic Wellness Coach is about teaching people how to live well, how to listen to their bodies and how to create daily practices that actually work in real life.⁠
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We’d love to welcome you into our school. Early Bird pricing ends this month, so now is the time to get in and save $500 off tuition!⁠
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So often we’re encouraged to quiet our emotions, So often we’re encouraged to quiet our emotions, cool our passion or see the more expressive parts of ourselves as something to manage or overcome.⁠
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But what if those very parts of us are some of the most sacred ones?⁠
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Your emotions. Your desires. Your body. Your passion.⁠
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These things are not obstacles to transcend. They are doorways back to yourself.⁠
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Anything in your life can become a spiritual tool if it brings you closer to your deepest truth. And YOU get to decide what that guiding truth is.⁠
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🌹 Want to begin reconnecting with your own inner wisdom? Get our free Women’s Wisdom Mini Course and learn how to listen to your heart’s desires, trust your intuition and reconnect with the wisdom that has always been within you. Comment WISDOM and we’ll send you the details.⁠
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Do you have questions about The Shakti School and Do you have questions about The Shakti School and what it would actually look like to fit the program into your life? Maybe you’re wondering how much time you should realistically set aside each week, how the coursework fits around a busy schedule, whether you can make the financial investment work, or what the experience is really like once you’re inside.

Maybe you’re excited about the school, but there are still a few practical pieces you want to understand before making a decision. That’s exactly what our clarity calls are here for. 🤍

These calls are completely free, totally pressure-free, and designed to give you space to ask all the questions you have. You’ll get to talk with a REAL human, learn more about the Feminine-Form Ayurveda School, and get a clearer sense of whether it feels like the right fit for you and your life. ✨

Nikkie Nie is one of our beloved coaches you can chat with! Nikki is a 500 Hour Registered Tantric Hatha Yoga and Meditation teacher, Ayurvedic Wellness Coach and Reiki + Sound Practitioner and masterfully facilitates spaces for people to empower their energy and ultimately their life!

Comment “NIKKI” to book a call with her and we’ll send you the link! 🩷
Maybe The Shakti School has been on your radar for Maybe The Shakti School has been on your radar for a while. 🌿 And maybe you’re wondering what it’s really like, what you’ll learn, or whether it’s the right next step for you.

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Come chat with one of our coaches, bring all your questions, learn more about what the Feminine-Form Ayurveda School actually looks like, and get a feel for whether this path feels aligned for you.

No pressure. Just a genuine conversation with a real human who’s here to help you explore what’s possible. ✨

Jackie DeConti is one of our beloved coaches you can book a call with! A lover of many things, Jackie is the host of Elixir Podcast, founder of Madre & The Muse, an Ayurvedic wellness company, and co-founder of Terra Sol Sanctuary, a yoga studio in Wilmington, NC. Her offerings weave in mindfulness and playfulness through a variety of experiential modalities.

As an Ayurvedic health counselor, Jackie works within the realms of feminine-form Ayurveda to inspire and empower women - awakening the wisdom within. With a multifaceted background in education, yoga, art, and music, she offers one-on-one Ayurvedic wellness consultations, private and public workshops, and yoga teacher trainings.

Schedule a call with Jackie via the link in bio or comment "JACKIE" and we’ll send you the link directly! 🩷
🥕 As the air becomes cooler and drier, support 🥕 As the air becomes cooler and drier, support your agni with foods that are easier to digest and grounding for vata. Favor foods like:⁠
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• Warm soups and stews⁠
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• Root vegetables⁠
• Warm grains⁠
• Nourishing broths⁠
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🫚 Start your morning by tending your inner flame. Before coffee or breakfast, try:⁠
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• A cup of warm lemon water⁠
• Ginger tea⁠
• A few deep breaths or gentle movement⁠
• A moment of gratitude before eating⁠
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🍠 Embrace the sweet, sour and salty tastes. Ayurveda teaches that each season offers the tastes we need most. During vata season, favor the tastes that bring grounding, hydration and nourishment.⁠
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• Sweet: builds strength and stability⁠
• Sour: supports digestion and awakens the senses⁠
• Salty: nourishes hydration and balance⁠
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🕯️ Turn mealtime into a ritual, and honor consistency. In Ayurveda, the way we prepare, receive and digest our food matters just as much as the food itself.⁠
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• Eat at consistent times daily⁠
• Eat in a peaceful environment without distractions⁠
• Slow down and chew your food thoroughly⁠
• Infuse your cooking with intention and presence⁠
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Friend, the rituals you’re creating for yourself could become the medicine you share with the world. ⁠
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✨ Comment STARTER and we'll send you our free Ayurveda Starter Kit with three of our favorite beginner resources to help you begin creating rituals that nourish your body, mind and spirit.⁠

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