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Ep. 225 Tea with Your Shadow Self: From Self-Sabotage to Self-Compassion with Carly Banks

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What if you invited the parts of yourself that you dislike the most to tea? At The Shakti School, we believe that part of our purpose here on earth is to learn how to truly, fully love ourselves and others. In today’s episode, Katie discusses how we can embody the teachings of Ayurveda, Yoga and Tantra in order to shine a light on our shadow self and become a true yogini, aka a woman who is whole and complete unto herself.

This recording is from a recent session hosted by Carly Banks. Carly is an incredible Ayurveda educator and founder of The Habit Ayurveda!

Learn with Katie LIVE! Join us for a free online workshop called Divine Feminine Ayurveda 101, on Monday, October 6th, at 11 am ET. Click here to sign up!

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In this episode about the shadow self and much more, you’ll hear:

~ An invitation to join our Ayurveda School! Click here to learn more and enroll.

~ The deeper meanings of the Sanskrit word Yoga 

~ Living disconnected from the heart 

~ The Ayurvedic definition of health 

~ Ways we continuously abandon ourselves 

~ Opening to our suffering and shadow self 

~ Why peace is not the goal of spiritual practice 

~ The Vedic concept of Karuṇā 

~ Avoiding common misunderstandings and misuses of Ayurveda 

~ Why we often self-sabotage any time we try to better ourselves

~ Learning to have your own back

~ Why dignity is your superpower

~ Life-changing questions to ask yourself 

~ What is a yogini? 

~ How working with your energy can radically affect your health 

~ Identifying your reactivity patterns

~ Getting to know your shadow self

~ What are Shakti and Shiva?

~ How the feminine flows in cycles

~ The three-legged stool of health

~ Our relationship to food is our relationship to mothering 

~ A guided grounding meditation practice

~ Sign up for our free mini-course about Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda!

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Connect with Carly Banks and The Shakti School:

~ Check out Carly’s community, The Habit Ayurveda

~ Follow Carly Banks on Instagram

~ Follow The Shakti School on Instagram and Facebook

~ 2026 Chakra Yoga Nidra Retreat: Deep dive into the chakras with Katie as your guide in the Bahamas in spring 2026!

~ Read Katie’s latest book, Glow-Worthy!

~ The Shakti School Membership

Other episodes about the shadow self:

~ Ep. 160 Courage in Facing the Shadow

~ Ep. 124 From Negative Self-Talk to TRUE Self

 

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From my heart to yours,

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Yes - let me say that again: Our symptoms, our heartbreaks and especially the moments when we feel like we are falling apart, are actually part of the great beautification project of our soul.⁠
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Those moments of WTF?! OUCH! and “I can’t take this anymore” are not signs that you’re broken. They are the juiciest fodder for your spiritual fire. ⁠
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And let’s be real. Some seasons of our life suck. We should never seek out pain or glorify it. If you are in a toxic relationship, a draining job, or a social situation that crushes your spirit you should get out, get help and choose yourself. ⁠
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But here’s the thing… some of the most profound spiritual awakenings in my own life have been born out of rejection, illness and utter heartbreak.⁠
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I’ve been rejected by men I loved. By publishers and agents. By friends, students and random mean-girl trolls on the Internet I’ve never even met. Even after four years and four editors, my book still has typos - and I’ve decided I want to keep them. Because they remind me: perfection isn’t the point. ⁠
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That is the price of living from your heart. That’s the toll tax on REALNESS.⁠
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And the deeper truth is this: The Divine is always using these messy moments to shape us, to burn away what isn’t true, to carve us closer to who we really are.⁠
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That’s what we’re about here in Ayurveda School.⁠
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✨ No rules. Just you. The rejected you. The real you. The loveable you.⁠
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When you step into this training, you’re not just learning Ayurveda - you’re learning to alchemize every part of your life (even the hardest parts) into soul-gold.⁠
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Grandma-maxxing is what the Zoomers call a rebellion against the insanity of modern life. It's the radical, old-fashioned art of slowing down and remembering that we are HUMAN BEINGS, not productivity machines! ⁠
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It's making things with our hands, tending to our gardens, baking bread, stirring pots, sewing, knitting and finding sweet pleasure in the most ordinary things. ⁠
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It's choosing the wisdom of our grandmothers over the endless scroll of the algorithm. It's remembering that women have gathered around kitchens, shared recipes, told stories, teased each other, made medicine and generally created beauty for THOUSANDS of years.⁠
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And guess what? Our nervous systems LOVE this stuff. ⁠
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Grandma-maxxing is about reclaiming the lost arts of being a woman, living seasonally, making things slowly and remembering that sometimes the most revolutionary thing we can do is put down our phones and bake a bomb-ass pie. ⁠
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Read through these and see which ones LIGHT up your body. Trust that that’s the one for you:⁠
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Making homemade soap, knitting a cozy sweater, baking sourdough bread, growing medicinal herbs, making homemade jam, sewing or embroidering, arranging fresh flowers, making herbal teas, canning summer vegetables, creating homemade candles, crocheting blankets, writing handwritten letters, making bone broth, tending a vegetable garden, pressing flowers in old books, making homemade body oils and salves, baking pies from scratch, birdwatching in the backyard, learning to quilt and gathering with girlfriends to make things, sip tea, laugh and tell stories. ⁠
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