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Ep. 178 Boundaries

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Do you have a hard time saying ‘no’ when someone asks for help? Maybe you want to do all the things now that spring has sprung! Unfortunately, when we lack strong boundaries we can easily overextend ourselves because we’re not intentional about our ‘yeses’ and ‘nos.’

In this week’s solo episode, Katie helps you identify the areas of your life that would benefit from boundaries. Learn how to set healthy boundaries so you can show up with more love and truth in your life and relationships!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

~ How to start setting boundaries

~ Why the most important boundaries are internal

~ What NOT to do when setting boundaries

~ Reflection questions to help you determine what boundaries to set

~ Good boundaries for your nervous system

~ The difference between trying to control others and healthy boundaries

~ How to find your weak spot

~ Why having strong boundaries is key to lovingly and honest relationships

~ How boundaries expose the quality of your relationships

~ Ready to go deeper? Sign up for our free mini-course on Women’s Wisdom and Ayurveda

~ If you’re a former Level 1 Shakti School graduate, don’t miss our Level 2 Ayurvedic Health Counselor training program starting on April 9th, 2024!

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I hope this episode helps you form healthier, more loving boundaries with yourself and others!

From my heart to your screen,

Katie

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You inherit your mother’s nervous system. The w You inherit your mother’s nervous system.

The way her body responded to stress, safety, love, chaos, nourishment and touch shaped the blueprint your own system was built upon. 

These patterns get passed through the womb and the subtle ways our caregivers regulated (or couldn’t regulate) themselves.

This is why so many of us grow up feeling anxious, overwhelmed or “too much.”

But it isn’t a personal flaw. And it isn’t your parents’ fault. It’s just your lineage.

The good news is that the nervous system patterns you inherited are not your destiny. 

Through embodied awareness, nervous system and energy work and loving consistency…we can literally rewire our physiology.

This is the heart of what we teach inside The Shakti School - how to reclaim your inner world, heal the inherited patterns living in your tissues, and pass down a more regulated, embodied lineage to everyone who comes after you.

🌹If you’re ready to take your lineage into your own hands and begin healing generations forward and backward starting right now, comment SOMATIC and we’ll send you our free class, Healing the Nervous System with Somatic Ayurveda. 

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The wheezy, lengthened exhales of Bellows Breath t The wheezy, lengthened exhales of Bellows Breath tones the vagus nerve, calming anxiety and easing the heart. Try this practice and feel for yourself how it leaves you bright, clear and lighter.⁠
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Keep in mind: skip this if you’re pregnant, on your period or have high blood pressure. Always stop if you feel dizzy and finish with a minute of slow breathing.⁠
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Raise your hand if you are fighting for your life Raise your hand if you are fighting for your life to stay warm and grounded this season. 🙋🏼‍♀️

Vata season is HERE. (To all my vatas out there - I see you and feel you. And we’re sending major warm, spicy, grounding energy your way.) 

If your heart is whispering for you to remember the wisdom of your ancestors and surrender to nature’s cycles (and you want to learn practical, time-tested Ayurvedic rituals to support you) here are some free resources.👇🏼

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Ayurveda teaches that this time of year asks us to Ayurveda teaches that this time of year asks us to anchor, simplify and choose what nourishes the soul. Presence over hurry, peace over worry, faith over doubt, love over ego. ⁠
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A seasonal reminder that our inner alignment is the deepest wellness practice.⁠
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