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10 Ways to Improve Your Sleep and Love Life Immediately

Whether you suffer from insomnia or sleep like a log, the ancient teachings of the Vedas tell us that the way we set up our bedroom can have a powerful impact on the depth and quality of our sleep. It can also boost the sensuality-factor for deeper connection with our loved one.

Vastu shastra (literally the ”science of construction or architecture”) is an ancient science that arranges dwellings in accordance with natural elements and directional alignments. Think Indian feng shui.

Here is my modern interpretation on a simple vastu bedroom wisdom. Use it to optimize your sacred sleep chamber. In general, these pointers will help you create an atmosphere that begs for sensual ritual and deep sleep:

  1. Keep the room light and airy. Open windows as much as the seasons allow.
  2. Keep the temperature mild and pleasant. I recommend avoiding overheating or over-air conditioning the room. Make sure your body feels comfortable. Sometimes just feeling cold is enough to cause insomnia.
  3. Get rid of the clutter. There should be nothing in the bedroom that reminds you of work. Move the stacks of papers you need to file at the office out of this sacred sleep chamber. Take the spare change and those piles of mail off the top of your dresser. (Go do it now, you know you have a stack like that!)
  4. Bring in harmony by keeping the room clean, well-painted and orderly.
  5. The room should be private.
  6. The room should be empty of machines or technologies. They kill the buzz of sensuality, and increase restlessness in the body and mind.
  7. Create some boundaries on your e-life. Life changes when we make the adult decision to turn off our electronic devices after 9pm. Seriously, the iphone may be one sexy technological wonder, but your significant other is sexier. If you are single, relish this time alone to read your favorite books.
  8. Avoid all forms of news media in the bedroom.
  9. The room should smell good, but not too scented. Avoid heavy incense. Use fresh romantic scents such as ylang ylang, sandalwood, jasmine, and rose.
  10. The bed should be comfortable, not sag in the middle, and made with sheets should be made of natural organic fibers.

This article was originally published on the Yoga Journal blog on September 13, 2013.

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Sharon Gannon Writes a Special Essay for Shakti School!

Jivamukti Yoga founder, Sharon Gannon, wrote a special essay for my book, Heathy, Happy, Sexy. It didn't make the final edit, but it was so beautiful, I wanted to include it here in our blog. Enjoy!

Ayurveda and Yoga by Sharon Gannon

My first experience with ayurvedic healing happened in the early nineties. I am in a small town in South India. The air is stifling. It is the afternoon and I’m sitting on a rusty metal bench in a tiny, dirt-floor room with 4 other people all waiting to see the doctor.  I have come with a friend of mine to offer support. She hasn’t been feeling well for the past week or so. She says that her body aches all over; she has lost interest in food and finds it difficult to get out of bed in the morning. She feels not only physically tired, but also emotionally depressed, with a recurring feeling of “what’s the use?” hanging over her like a dark cloud. Finally the doctor calls us into his office. He asks her what’s the matter, and she tells him how she has been feeling. He then asks her a matter of fact question: “So, madam, do you want to feel better?” to which she replies, “Yes.” “Okay then get up.  Spread your feet apart, stand up straight, release your arms by your sides,” he commands in a heavy Indian accent, and although somewhat startled by his tone of voice, she obeys. “Now start the shaking of your body, lift your right foot off the floor and shake it, then your left, now each hand and arm, shake your head, let your jaw relax, move around—move, move—get down on the floor and roll around—move, come on, don’t stop—shake all over.” He had her movin’ and shakin’ for a good five minutes without a stop, while I just sat in a corner and watched. Then he said, “Okay, you will feel better now, please give me 20 rupees.” We paid and walked out of the Ayurvedic clinic—both of us laughing uncontrollably. My friend was cured of her malaise by moving her body. You could say she shook her sickness off.

 

Since that first encounter I have learned that ayurvedic doctors will often prescribe shaking your body when you don’t feel well as the first step in the treatment of sickness. Personally I have often used shaking as medicine to provide a boost when I was feeling stressed or out of sorts. Through intentional shaking, you not only increase circulation of blood, but also circulation of prana—the universal life force that animates and connects the physical body to more subtle aspects of a person—emotional, mental and spiritual. When prana is flowing through one’s body, the result can be felt as “upliftment,” optimism and even ecstasy. Many ayurvedic and yogic practitioners say that the first things to do when ill health occurs, before ingesting any type of medicine, are:

  1. Mentally concentrate on the area concerned and imagine that it is being charged with prana—positive life force—and consciously breathe into the area where pain or lethargy is felt.
  2. Bring the concentration of prana into physical movement by shaking, whirling, rolling and/or performing yoga asanas.
  3. Massage the body, preferably with oil.

 

Shaking, as well as the above modalities, are ways to bring forth life’s essential vitality: your old unconscious ways of being get shaken up, and you can then reset your objectives. Our culture is founded on the concept and practical application of confinement—some examples being all that is viewed as normal in our lives: animals in factory farms, pet birds in cages, dogs on leashes, bridles and saddles on horses, fenced in land, trees planted in rows, bonsai trees, dammed up rivers, as well as human beings living in cramped apartments or houses, property lines clearly defined, not to mention the confinement of our bodies in clothes and shoes which inhibit freedom of movement. For those of us constrained by those cultural norms, shaking is nothing less than a radical, revolutionary action. Shaking was my introduction to ayurveda and my curiosity has only increased over the years as I have deepened my studies and practice of yoga and tried to understand their relationship, as well as how a vegan lifestyle fits it to these ancient systems.

 

Ayurveda and yoga are sister sciences used conjointly in India for centuries to bring about health and happiness, two important goals of life. Although possible, it is difficult to arrive at a state of happiness without health, and vice-versa. Ayurveda teaches us how to have a long and healthy life, and yoga gives us a reason to live by teaching us how to most efficiently use this precious life to attain enlightenment—ultimate happiness. The Sanskrit term ayurveda means science or knowledge of life, and the word yoga means to join, referring to reuniting with the Divine source of all existence—that whose nature is bliss, boundless joy, eternal happiness.

 

These two self-help systems, and they can be considered self-help systems because they are designed to help the small self reunite with the eternal Self—the  source of all healing and happiness—have been around for thousands of years and were first described in the ancient Indian Sanskrit texts, the Vedas. To grasp how ayurveda and yoga work to bring about healing and happiness we must first understand that these ancient texts provide a holistic view of the individual and do not limit a person to just a physical body. The ancient texts describe each person as having not one but five bodies: a physical, energetic, emotional, intellectual and bliss body. Or in Sanskrit terms: anamayakosha, pranamayakosha, manomayakosha, vijnanamayakosha and anandamayakosha. These “bodies” are like sheaths or coverings, which together comprise the jiva or individual soul giving it mobility by providing it with a complex instrument with which to navigate through material life and even beyond.

 

Of all the five bodies the energetic, or pranamayakosha, is the bridge which links the physical body to the more subtle aspects of the person and ultimately to the universal blissful soul or atman. Because of the importance of the energetic body to the health of the whole body, many ayurveda and yoga practices focus on techniques to increase circulation and balance and direct prana—the vital life force—with the intention to balance and integrate all the bodies of the self. When all the five bodies are working together there is a feeling of completeness and wholeness. When they are in conflict, disease results, which can show up in the physical body as well as in any of the bodies. For example a person can appear to be physically healthy but feel ill at ease in their mind or in their heart.

 

In the traditions of both ayurveda and yoga, the body is not viewed as separate from the mind, so when we talk about health it isn’t just confined to health for the physical body without addressing the more subtle aspects the mind. The Sanskrit word for mind is manas.  Manas means mind, yes, as in intellect and thinking, but more precisely it means the mind and heart together. One’s thoughts and feelings comprise manas. Yoga and ayurveda perceive that true health and happiness can only be attained when the thinking mind and the feeling heart come together and are not in conflict. When that harmony is achieved the physical body benefits, as do all the bodies, which together comprise the individual entity.

 

In order to create a true state of health for the individual we must consider the whole person, so it is important to know what constitutes a whole person—what each of the five bodies is made of. Here is a simplified explanation: The physical body is composed of the food we eat, as well as the five elements and the water we drink; the energetic body is made of prana or life force; the emotional body is made of feelings; the mental body is made of thoughts; and the spirit body is the soul, the composition of which is bliss. The soul is always blissful and happy. The experiences of life are designed to increase the bliss of the soul. Because of various karmas that are ripening, a person may or may not allow this inner bliss and happiness to filter into his or her mind and physical body. When a person ignorantly identifies with the physical body as separate from the mind, or with the mind as separate from the heart, or with the heart as separate from the soul, for example, the result is usually unhappiness, stress, suffering and subsequent illness. The systems of ayurveda and yoga are concerned with bringing about health and happiness for body and mind. They recognize that this health and happiness must come from the inner source, the soul, which is always blissful. The job of any health-promoting system is to remove obstacles to allow the inner Self, the blissful soul, to shine through the various layers of body and mind. This is an important consideration when we are trying to understand the relationship between ayurveda and yoga. Both systems are practical, not theoretical, and they both focus on removing obstacles through the modification or elimination of toxins to bring about the sought after goals of health and happiness. Ayurveda and yoga both use as their foundation the inherent perfection and natural happiness of the true Self or soul.

 

Health and happiness become suppressed due to toxins. Toxins may be physical or mental. Physical toxins may come from the food we eat, the air we breathe and the environment we live in. Mental toxins come from negative emotions such as anger, jealousy, greed, sadness, etc. All toxins appear in our system according to our karmas, or the actions we have taken in our past in relation to others and our self. Our karmas will determine our physical makeup at the time of our birth. Each of us has a particular body type that expresses our personality. Ayurveda refers to these constitutional types as doshas. Ayurveda and yoga deal with purifying our karmas by eliminating physical and mental toxins and rebalancing the doshas so that a healthy and happy individual can shine through.

 

Ayurveda deals mainly with the elimination of toxins from the physical body and yoga with eliminating toxins from the mind (or manas). Of course the body and mind are integrally connected and what you do to the body affects the mind and what you think and feel affects the body. Training your mind to let go of habitual negative emotional responses can eliminate toxins from the mind. Ayurveda helps you choose the best diet for your body type or dosha. Yoga helps you to choose the best diet for your enlightenment. As you learn to consciously direct the actions of body and mind you are able to let go of toxic negative emotions, all of which contribute to a lack of self-confidence. When toxins are let go of, true Self-confidence results. True Self-confidence comes about when the self can connect to the source of happiness through the eternal Self or soul—the atman, whose nature is composed of satchidananda: truth, consciousness and mostly bliss.  Diseases both physical and mental come about from being ill at ease, not comfortable and not happy, and this discomfort can be traced to a disconnection to the atman, to one’s eternally blissful soul. The physical body cannot be ignored; after all we are spiritual beings having a physical experience. We cannot experience health or happiness by depriving others of health or happiness. When your food choices come from a place of compassion, then you are more likely to quickly bring the body and mind into harmony and achieve your goal of health and happiness. A vegan diet is the most compassionate diet because it causes the least amount of harm to the animals, to the planet, to other human beings and to ourselves. Eating a vegan diet not only contributes to physical health, but to mental health as well, by helping an individual overcome negative emotions by promoting gentleness and kindness over greed and selfishness. I realize that some ayurvedic practitioners advocate eating milk products, especially ghee and even some meat, for physical health reasons. I cannot align myself with this reasoning. Perhaps at one time in our historical past we did not have the consciousness to realize the impact of our choices on the planet and ourselves. But today it could not be more crystal clear. If we are to utilize the sacred wisdom from the past, then we must be able to discern the essential truth in that wisdom and utilize it for the happiness of all and let go of any self-serving motives. I have met such an enlightened ayurvedic practitioner, Dr. Gabriel Cousens, who at his Tree of Life vegan clinic in Arizona gave me a full-on, 7-day, ayurvedic panchakarma treatment without the use of any animal products, using coconut oil to replace ghee. I think he represents compassion in action, able to honor tradition while rebirthing it into a vital application for the present world—true spiritual activism.

 

We all want to be happy; some of us even want enlightenment. The enlightened sages tell us that our true nature is happiness. But if that is so then why is it so hard to be happy? How do we reconnect to this happiness? Yoga teaches that what ever we want in life we can have, if we provide it for someone else. So if we want happiness then we should focus on contributing to the happiness of others. In order to do that effectively we must find ways to allow goodness, kindness and compassion to override the self-centeredness of our ego, which tends to hold on to and identify with toxic negative emotions.

 

If we want to move towards health and happiness we might try to understand who we are as individual physical personalities. Sickness could be thought of as an imbalance of energy. Determining your ayurvedic constitution can be a valuable first step towards good health. Once you know what elements may be predominating in your system then you can take actions to counteract the ill effects that may be caused by imbalances of the doshas. Dosha is the Sanskrit term that describes a person’s physical and mental disposition or constitution. The doshas are drawn from the natural elements that make up our world. These elements are: Ether, Air, Fire and Water. Each of us is born with a body composed of combinations of these elements in different degrees, making each body unique:

  • The combination of ether and air results in vata dosha.
  • The combination of fire and water results in pitta dosha
  • The combination of water and earth results in kapha dosha

 

Vata, pitta and kapha each have their own attributes. These attributes show up in qualities of mind and physical body. The general attributes associated with Vata are talkative, impulsive, excitable, touchy, restless, intellectually active, reflective, moody, creative, imaginative, changeable, fearful, imaginative, unpredictable, anxious. The general attributes associated with Pitta are responsive, knowledgeable, judgmental, critical, sociable, passionate, fiery, fanatical, logical, precise, intellectual, aggressive, ambitious, and physically active. The general attributes associated with Kapha are passive, peaceful, calm, cool, firm, careful, quiet, stable, steady, sturdy, stubborn, greedy, possessive, caring, tolerant.

 

It is interesting to note that although the dosha system is thousands of years old and of Indian origin, in our western medical system we have a similar typing developed by Dr. William Sheldon (1898-1977), who was an American psychologist who devoted his life to observing human bodies and temperaments. He grouped body type and temperament according to the way that the human embryo develops in the mother’s womb. He named these three elements: Endomorphy, Mesomorphy and Ectomorphy, for they seemed to derive from the three developing tissue layers of the human embryo during gestation. The ectoderm develops into the brain and nervous system and so would correspond to vata dosha; the mesoderm contributes to muscles and the circulatory system, so would correspond to pitta dosha; and the endoderm grows into the organs of digestion, which would correspond to kapha dosha.  Just as in the dosha system, no one person is totally and exclusively only one type. We all are made up of components in various degrees with one component usually dominating.

 

Although I am a yoga practitioner and I admit my knowledge of ayurveda is very limited, still I have found that a basic understanding of the doshas has enhanced my practice and provided me with direction as well as a greater degree of tolerance so as to better assist the students who come to me for instruction.

 

In a person’s lifetime, the three doshas provide structure. Infancy and childhood is a time for kapha, pitta predominates during the active time of adulthood, and vata governs old age, a time for reflection. In a typical Jivamukti Yoga class we go through all of the three doshas but in reverse as to how they appear in a lifetime. For example, the beginning of the class is under the direction of vata, when there is chanting, listening to the teacher give a teaching and mentally setting your intention for the practice. After we have focused the mind, we move into the pitta portion of the class, when we move the body in a series of asanas creating heat. The class culminates with cooling and calming down into quiet relaxation and meditation, a time for kapha. So each yoga session can be like a profound rebirthing.

 

Chanting the sacred syllable OM is a good way to begin a class as it provides a sort of preview to the experiences that will unfold during the rest of the class. OM can be broken down into these three sound components: AH-OO-MMM, which corresponds to the three doshas, vata, pitta and kapha, respectively. The vata processes control activity from the navel to the feet. The pitta processes control activity from the navel to the heart. The kapha processes control activity from the heart to the top of the head. So while chanting ah-oo-mmm, one should be able to feel these doshas operating energetically in their body in the following way:

 

AH:  The sound vibration is felt in the lower part of the body from the navel down to the feet. Feel the sound vibrate there. This will bring grounding to any imbalances of vata.

OO:  The sound vibration is felt from the navel upward and around the heart area. Let it circulate there, balancing and cooling the fiery pitta dosha.

MMM:  This sound can be felt as vibrating in the throat and into the head, bringing calmness and serenity into the brain and throughout the nervous system by balancing the kapha dosha.

 

The three humors of the body—gas, bile and phlegm—correspond to these three doshas. When there is too much gas, there is an imbalance of vata, the air/ether element; when there is too much bile, there is an imbalance of pitta, the fire element; and when there is too much phlegm, there is an imbalance of kapha, the water/earth element. Because all imbalances are imbalances of energy, yoga addresses this with practices that may include pranayama and asana to help release, balance, and direct energy in a more positive healthy way. Yoga asanas are appropriate for all dosha types, but to achieve the most benefit there should be a different emphasis for each person according to their dosha. A yoga teacher who knows something about the doshas can use that knowledge to better diagnose when particular students are having trouble in a class and then be able to help these students work to overcome the imbalances of the doshas.

 

Once I was teaching a yoga class where the focus was on ayurveda. I began by giving a brief but intriguing summary outlining the characteristics of the three doshas and had promised that during the class we would discover what dosha each person was.  At some point I instructed everyone to go up into a headstand and to silently count their breaths. After about 2 minutes I asked a person whom I suspected was a typical kapha type to tell me what breath they were on, to which they replied 30. I then asked the red haired student next to them, who was now doing many difficult variations what breath they were on, to which they shouted loudly in pitta like fashion “108.”  Then I turned to a student who had just come down out of the asana and was in child’s pose, “how many breaths did you hold your headstand for?” “Oh I forgot, I think I lost count.”

 

The following provides simplified, generic guidelines for how to identify doshas as they might be expressed through the behavior of yoga students in a classroom setting and how the teacher can help particular students according to their dosha. Of course these guidelines can be applied to oneself as well.

 

Vata types tend to be talkative, impulsive, excitable, touchy, restless, active, and moody.

They often will give up too soon and “space out,” sometimes just sitting down and watching the rest of the class, checking their cell phone or leaving in the middle of a class to go to the bathroom. They lack will power and stamina. Their breath will come in stops and starts with much hesitation. Or they will start out fine but won’t be able to sustain themselves. They want a light practice and don’t want to work hard. They may be undecided as to which asana they want to do. That is why they should come to class and be told want to do. Left at home they won’t be able to decide or to concentrate. A home practice, unless it is a fixed series, will be difficult for a vata personality to sustain. When vata is in a state of equilibrium they may have bursts of energy and want to do many asanas or take many yoga classes. But this commitment is usually short lived. Pain for them is excruciating, they have low tolerance and can burst into tears at the slightest discomfort.

What to do? Vata needs to develop steadiness, stability, endurance and the ability to bear a certain amount of discomfort. They benefit from removing distractions from their practice—encourage them to leave their bags and turn off their phones. They need to concentrate on making their breath even and smooth. Sun salutations, standing asanas, as well as inversions, forward bends and lateral twists will help.

 

Pitta types usually can bear a lot of pain, as their tolerance level is high. They sweat easily and profusely. Pittas will show mastery over asanas faster than other types. They put maximum effort and enthusiasm into their practice. They can become prideful of their accomplishments and can become too strict, rigid and dogmatic in their practice.

What to do? Pitta needs to concentrate on slow, full breaths and not be in a hurry. They should not get overly dramatic and fanatical. Realize that the vata’s natural tendency will be to compete, but instead of competing with others, they can be encouraged to use their natural aggression to challenge themselves towards developing slow full breaths. Instead of winning, which pushes us into the future, help them be in the present moment. Sun salutations done with smooth slow steady breathing is good for pitta. They should stay in inversions and twists while working to develop good mental intentions. Back bends are very good for them if they are able to direct their energy towards letting go of negative emotions while in the backbend instead of pushing themselves to impress or be the best. All asanas should be done with special attention to the mental state. They must strive to overcome anger and pride while practicing asanas.

 

Kapha types can tend to be lazy and give in to inertia. But once they become committed to a practice they tend to stick to it. They tend not to get too excited about asanas. They exert their effort in a non-aggressive way at a slow pace without fear. They are usually happy go lucky. They don’t complain much, and usually don’t ask many questions, content to allow understanding to naturally arise in time with practice.

What to do? Kapha needs to let go, especially of the exhale. They need to concentrate on exhaling as much as inhaling. Kaphas like to conserve and so have a tendency to hold their breath. They benefit greatly through the practice of vinyasa and sun salutations. Inversions and back bending are also very helpful in balancing kapha dosha due to the hormonal and circulatory stimulation that these asanas provide.

 

The systems of ayurveda and yoga have been borrowing from each other for centuries so much so that it may be hard to decipher just what came from where. In our contemporary times, when we practice yoga or ayurveda we can’t help but to receive benefits from both systems. This merger took a dramatic turn during the 13th century C.E. when a small group of yogic practitioners known as the Nath yogis in northern India under the leadership of Swatmarama yogi, codified the practices of yoga into a book known as the Hatha Yoga Pradipika. The book was revolutionary for many reasons. The title means to shed light on how to attain yoga: happiness, bliss and ecstasy, Self-realization, the realization of the oneness of being beyond all duality—that in itself is a pretty impressive promise! The book was meant to provide a supplement to Patanjali’s Yoga Sutra, written well over a thousand years before, which dealt primarily with mental obstacles to enlightenment. The Hatha Yoga Pradipika provided more practical, hands-on techniques to overcome obstacles and eliminate toxins. At the time of publication it was assumed that a yogi should not only be a master of yoga but also be well versed in the practices of ayurveda, so it comes as no surprise that the techniques described in the Hatha Yoga Pradipka contain elements no doubt borrowed from the ayurveda system by these adventurous yogis from the 13th century, who were able to blend ayurvedic and yoga methods into a system that worked in tandem to increase health and happiness. We all owe a great debt to them.

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How Real Deal Christians Schooled This Yogini on Love and Forgiveness

Yoga-mat-carrying-chics could learn something from bible-carrying chics. I should know. I got schooled by some sassy, suit-wearing lady-preachers this past year when I moved back down south to Virginia, land of the notorious Bible Belt.

A few months back I had a big ole’ fat case of the poor-me’s. A mind gremlin had actually wrapped her slimy webbed palms around my head and heart. She was ruthless, loudly blaring things into my heart space that made me wanna’ give up on my dreams and get in bed with a box of Chex-mix and a block of cheese.

Luckily, my mama (Vera) was around to pull me out of funk-city, dragging me kicking and screaming to a bible study. The last time I had been to bible class I was wearing MC-hammer pants, braiding friendship bracelets and listing to Toni Braxton. Needless to say, I was less than thrilled at the prospect of revisiting that awkward time of my embodiment.

“I demand it,” she said. “You are coming with me to my ‘little’ bible study.”

My mom always calls it her “little” bible study. Its as if by adding a diminutive qualifier to the whole charade she can somehow fool all the other non-Christians into overlooking what clearly proved to be a Jesusy-Tantrik, Christ-Worshipin’, Lady-Witch gathering, complete with scented oils, speaking in tongues and the laying of hands.

Little, my ass. There is nothing little about my mamas bible study. Not only are most of the women buxom and juicy, but the unapologetic spiritual dexterity and prayer-filled dedication of these Jesus-loving ladies made me wonder if we yogini gals had a few things to learn from them.

Let me explain….

About half-way through the study’s lesson on faith and surrender, it became obvious to the group that I wasn’t sharing much (an oddity for me in any lady-group circle, let me assure you). With much trepidation, I admitted to the group of women that I didn’t feel comfortable sharing and connecting with them because I could feel myself holding so much pain and anger against the Christian church.

“What are you angry about,” said the leader-lady, a no-nonsense woman with a loving matriarchal tone.

“Well, Im angry that a bunch of middle aged southern men made me feel so bad for being a sexual, sensual creature. Im angry that at the age of 13 I had to sign a “promise” stating that I would never have sex before marriage. I am angry that I was subjected to lock-ins at the age 14 where me and my Jewish friends were shown graphic low-fi videos depicting non-Christians’ eventual resting place – the fiery lakes of Satan’s, teeth-gnashing hot wonderland. I was angry that I was stuffed full of Krispee Creme donuts and Mr. Pibb throughout the night, and at a hazy, sugar-drugged 3 AM, asked whether or not I wanted to be a child of God or not. I was so angry, and even sadder, that the single most intimate aspects of myself –  my body, my sexuality and my connection to the Divine Creator of the Universe was co-opted by a patriarchal religious system that was so afraid of my vagina that they wanted to keep it on lock-down through prepubescent pseudo-contracts and fattening me up with donut creme".

As I finished my tear-stained rant, the preacher-woman stood up and came over by my side. She put her hands on my head and I closed my eyes as she entered into some sort of Christ-loving lady-trance.

“Lord,” she proclaimed, “Free Katie from this burden she is carrying, oh Divine One. Lord, may all the thoughts inside Katie that were placed into her by these men in bad suits and bad hair cuts, be removed from her right here and right now. We know Lord, that she is your sacred jewel, your most beloved possession. Lord, we know that she was created by you, in perfection. May all these thoughts and feelings she has inside of her that tell her she is damaged, that she is dirty, that she is shamed, be removed from her right here and right now, Oh Lord. This child of God is a light for your love. This is how you see her, Oh Lord, and let her see herself in this way from here on out.”

As she continued praying and laying hands over me, I felt the store house of years of 13-year old-girl-sadness and angst leave my body. I felt relief, knowing that there was a group of people that embodied Christ’s nonjudgmental love and acceptance. With my eyes closed, I saw my whole body fill up with light, tears streaming down my face, as I let this woman of God midwife the exorcism of the thought-forms that the southern Baptist charade had mistakenly planted into my body.

Slowly, each of the ten women came over and put their hands on me. I felt safe, knowing that these women loved me for exactly who I was as they cried out Amen and whispered “Yes, Jesus.” I felt healed. I was being healed by the MAMAS of the Christian realms. I felt the whole wily band of Christ’s cheerleaders placing their loving mama-hands on the wounds that had wrapped themselves on my heart like tentacles.

But Jesus wasn’t done with me yet…

The leader-mama actually got down under the tall table, on hands and knees, in her sleek black lady-suit, and anointed my feet with oil, just like in old-school Bible times. She freaking anointed me with oil. She was fearless. She put it on my feet, praying that I may be protected wherever I walked.

She put it on my hands, saying that my hands would act as servants of love in the world. She put it on my forehead, saying that my mind would be a clear vessel for Christ. Finally she looked up at me and said, “Now Katie, do you FORGIVE them? Do you forgive those men in suits? Do you forgive the church?”

Oh hot damn. She was asking ME to be the forgiving one. Not the men in the suits or the church, but ME. She was asking me to do what Jesus Christ would have done. She was skilled at her craft and I was ready. “Yes,” I whispered.  And I did forgive. And forgiveness washed through me like a cool river. Like love.

These women, acting on behalf of the love of Christ, saved me. 

I got saved – saved for the second time. Not like the first time, out of fear-coercion and childish innocence, but saved out of love and forgiveness.  I was saved from the memories that lived in me of how bad Christianity had been to me. I was saved from all the anger that I was carrying around. I was saved from myself and my own limited view of what it means to be on the real-deal spiritual path. I was saved from that limited sense of self that told me that I knew what I needed. I got saved.

My Christianity may never look like my parents’ version, the Church’s version, or even that wild group of Christian lady-witches’ version. But what I do know is that I am a Guardian of Love, chosen by Christ to continue to forgive and love, forgive and love, forgive and love. Thats how Jesus is alive in me.

And that was how my mama’s ‘little’ bible study went down.

To conclude, here is what I learned from real-deal Christian mamas:

i. They aren’t impressed with the political and economic use of Christianity – they are impressed by acts of great trust and love.

ii. Lots of cool Christian women (and men I assume) are NOT happy with the way things have been going down in the Christian church. That real-deal preacher woman told me that oftentimes it is the very leaders of religion that are closest to “the devil” himself. I knew that, but to have a preacher woman SAY it. Word.

iii. Prayer is something Christians go to – like everyday – to help support one another and themselves. These ladies are praying for each other ON THE DAILY. When was the last time you sat your hot yoga-toned bootie down and PRAYED for your friends? Maybe we could start being fearless enough to do that for ourselves and selfless enough to do it for one another.

iv. Circles are good for study. These women get together weekly to deeply study their sacred text – the Bible. When was the last time you got together with your yoga mates to dig deep into the Sutras or Rumi or a rad Tantric text? We can learn so much from these mamas. Gather in circles. Talk to one another. Not in your “yoga voice,” but in your most vulnerable, real-deal voice. You know, the voice that your friends from high school would recognize as you. Bring the spiritual book of your choice, it doesn’t matter. The bible says that when 2 or more are gathered in “my name,” Love appears.

v. Real-deal Christians are doing the same thing that real-deal yogis or Buddhists or Hindus or Jews are doing. Call yourself whatever you want – the end game is the same for all of us. Its love. L-O-V-E, love.

What lessons have you learned from unlikely places that change how you practice yoga – on the mat, and in life?

~Katie

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The Real Fountain of Youth – Oil Your Machine

Despite the ancient Charaka’s beautiful promise of trimmed, strong, charming bodies, the western woman seems intent on buffing, exfoliating and dermabrasioning oil from her skin. As I work with women, I keep pleading with them, “Please mama, oil your body,” and yet it seems like one of the hardest premises to integrate into the daily routine. This may be because it seems hard to believe that by lovingly massaging a clean oil into the body, many diseases and imbalances can be both prevented and treated.

Our lack of love for our innate oiliness may also be partially to blame. Our current cultural paradigm sells us the myth that oily is gross. Anything unctuous or juicy is to be promptly waxed, astringed and exfoliated away, leaving no sign that we may be, underneath our expensive designer beauty products, a juice-producing, oil-secreting woman. Ladies of the land, may we let this idea die, and may our new mantra be, “Oily is Beautiful.” Repeat – “Oily is Beautiful.” In fact, oil is what keeps the skin young, taut and supple. Have I convinced you yet? If not, read on.

The simple truth is that the simple practice of oiling the physical machine is, quite possibly, the best thing we can do for the body, and the nervous system, on a daily basis. In fact, there is a phrase in traditional Indian healthcare that says, “Either pay the oil man today, or you will be paying the doctor tomorrow.” And as our skin is the largest organ of the body (in fact, it weighs anywhere from 6 to 10 pounds), we may do well in caring for this large biologically active organ.

Why do it? How about:

  • a boost in your skin’s ability to breathe
  • baby’s-ass smooth skin
  • less cellulite
  • a deep feeling of self-love – touch is ten times stronger than verbal or emotional contact. The skin is one of the primary seats of emotion, feelings, and desire.
  • a release of a feel-good-hormone cocktail – the skin is as rich in hormones as the hypothalamus in the brain. When we self-massage, we literally release a cascade of feel-good, life-enriching growth-factor chemicals into our bloodstream.
  • boosts vitality by preventing dehydration and providing deep nourishment
  • stimulates the immune system
  • cleanses the lymph – the rubbing and stroking actions dislodge accumulated toxins and impurities from the body and move them into the digestive system.

How to Oil Up – Ayurveda Style

  1. Choose an oil. If you tend to run hot, coconut oil is cooling. If you run cold, sesame oil is warming. Sunflower oil is a good oil to blend with either of these two as it lessens their smell and heaviness (if you find them too intense). If you run really oily already, you may try dry brushing your skin instead of using oil.
  2. Start by warming up your oil. When you warm the oil it “cures” it, allowing your skin to better absorb it. You can heat your oil in a small sauce span on the stove. I usually just put some boiling water in a glass measuring cup. Then, I put the smaller glass bottle of oil into the measuring cup and let the oil heat for about 15 minutes before applying it. You can also just simply place the glass bottle directly in your bathroom sink. Close the drain and fill with the hottest water possible. Allow to sit for at least 15 minutes before applying to the body. Truth be told, sometimes I don’t have time for curing it, so I just rub it strong in my palms to “heat it” before applying.
  3. Get naked. 
  4. For the full bliss treatment, you can start at the top of the head and pour the oil directly onto the crown. If you are doing this before work and do not want an oily head for the rest of the day, you can skip this part and save it for a day when you do not need to be “presentable.” That said, Ayurvedic tradition placed heavy emphasis on massage the head and neck. Of the 107 energetic points of the body (called marmas), 37 are located on the head and neck.
  5. Continue onto the face (gently) and the rest of the body.  On the long arms and legs, use back-and-forth strokes. On the joints, use circular strokes. If you are looking down at your belly, do circular strokes in a clock-wise motion, as this is direction in which our long intestine moves, and will stimulate proper digestion.
  6. How long should you spend massaging the body? Ideally, 15-20 minutes. If time is an issue, spend at least five minutes in total communion with your body vehicle. And by the way, notice the spots of the body you avoid. The thighs? The feet? Spend the most time there, as these are the bits that need the most love.
  7. Sit for some time. I recommend 20 minutes. Why not use this time to do some meditation?
  8. Rub off any excess oil with a towel and then take a shower. It may be a good idea to have a few towels designating for oiling, as they will not be of much use for drying the body after a few weeks. Showering causes the pores to open, allowing the herbal oil to penetrate even deeper into the skin. You do not need to soap-off the oil. The body will, most likely absorb it all, especially if you are quite dry.
  9. Make sure not to leave the oil on for more than 45 minutes as this can actually clog the channels we are trying to cleanse. Also, make sure to use chemical-free, organic, cold-pressed oils.
  10. Leave the house covered in a layer of L.O.V.E. (well-oiled).

~Katie

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Ayurveda Can Change Your Life – Ten Things You May Not Know About Yoga’s Sister

The yoga world has a lesser-known sister and her name is Ayurveda. For thousands of years, yoga and Ayurveda were seen as necessary compliments to one another. But somewhere along the way, we fell in love with yoga and yet forgot about Ayurveda.

And although some famous mamas like Madonna, Christy Turlington, and the Grand Priestess of Get-Your-Act-Together (Oprah) have touted its health-boosting benefits, Ayurveda remains largely an exotic Indian mystery.

I heard about Ayurveda in India. I was studying with a sweet old Brahmin man named A.G. Mohan. I remember thinking, wow, this is amazing and its never gonna’ be applicable to my life back in the U.S. But the more I studied it, the more I realized that it was all about developing deep self-awareness. It was also about humbling the ego (that tells you that you really deserve an entire bar of dark chocolate) to the laws of Nature.

I feel like its time for yoga’s powerhouse sister to come out of hiding and begin infusing our practices and lives with rich, time-tested wisdom.  I wanna’ help her, so here is my mini-Ayurveda primer, just for you.

Ayurveda – which means “Science of Life,” holds the following premises as true:

1.  If Ayurveda were a religion (it’s not), Nature is God and the only sin is not listening to your higher-knowing.

2.  Nature has cycles – daily and seasonal. When we learn them, we can ride them and glean some of their power. When we ignore them, we suffer. When we tune to natural rhythms, our body becomes more balanced naturally. (e.g. being in bed asleep by 10 p.m. instead of surfing Amazon is one example of tuning to natural rhythm).

3.  The body is a wise, Spirit-infused, breathing-animal, mind-matrix charged with an electro-intelligence called prana (energy).  When prana is flowing where it should, you GLOW. Plain and simple.

4.  You are a unique, special snowflake, just like everybody else. Because each individual is unique, you will have different needs. This holds true whether we are talking about what you eat, how many times a month you have sex, or how often and what you do for exercise.

5.  Disease can be caused by a number of things – but at its core, disease is caused by forgetting who we are  – A Timeless Spirit Being.

6.  There is one answer to any question in Ayurveda: It depends.

7.  Energy follows focus. Our experience of life, how we see the world “out there,” and whether we are happy or not, is largely determined by our energy. When we change our energy, our thoughts change. When we change our thoughts, energy shifts in that direction.

8.  Oil your machine – don’t wait for your body to start creaking and cracking before you oil it! Like any fine-tuned instrument, the body needs to be oiled. So go slap some coconut oil on your fine thighs. Now.

9.  Many people are fatigued and depressed/anxious because they aren’t living the life they want to live.

10.  You can’t stop constipation by eating more raw cauliflower. Okay, this one is a stretch, but raw food, if you are already constipated, ain’t gonna help. Ayurveda understands that anything can turn to poison in the body if your metabolism can’t digest it. Yes, even raw organic goji-berry-acai-kale smoothies. Lay off the cold beverages, cold sandwiches, carrots, raw nuts and raw veggies if you suffer from anxiety, insomnia or constipation. Drink some warm ginger tea, eat some soup and rub your body in oil.

I hope this list will get you started on at least becoming curious about what this philosophy and science has to offer your life.

Share it! Live it!

~Katie

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Recipe for Getting More Core Vitality

Here’s my go-to list for getting more core vitality – essential for being healthier, happier, and a whole lot sexier!

Go organic: Eat foods that are seasonally-aligned, organic and when possible, local.

Cleanse and purify, then rebuild and renew: If you are full of toxic gunk from over-indulging in meat, sugar, drugs, alcohol or processed/fried foods, don’t start eating a ton of ghee and dates. First, take a few days to eat super-simple and clean – mainly whole grains, lentils, vegetables and high-quality fats such as olive oil and avocado.

Stop eating out so much: Ojas lies in the love of home-made meals. By and large, restaurant cooks don’t pour their love into your dish.

Avoid overeating: This depletes the digestive fire.

Get rid of excess stimulation while eating: If you want to build core vitality, no more watching the evening news, or eating lunch in front of your computer at the office.

Sleep “your” hours: You know what your hours are. Some women need seven to feel perky, others thrive on nine.

Oil the body: Use an oil that is appropriate for the season and/or your body constitution. If you have alot of mucous or are extra toxic, start by dry brushing your body for a few days, while eating clean and simple foods. Then, begin to oil up.

Rest: Do deep, restorative yoga, yin yoga and yoga nidra (checkout our workshops page for yoga nidra)

Love the one you’re with – Any form of real love and devotion boosts our vitality and immune health.

~Katie

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A Morning Ayurvedic Routine for Lasting Change

It’s so easy to get excited about a new lifestyle change at the beginning of the year. But once February hits, that bright fire of desire may start to burn out, leaving our new life goals a bit cold.

Ayurveda understands this, and encourages us to work slowly and consistently with our life changes. Its better to throw a little stone into a pond daily than try to heft a huge rock once! With little daily-routine pebbles, waves of consistency will ripple out and create a new set point for your life choices.

This slow, steady path is achieved through daily routine (or dinacharya in Sanskrit), and it is essential for real, lasting change. Here are some of the steps in Ayurveda for a bright awakening, that can help set your day on course. Print this list up. Post it in your bathroom or refrigerator until it becomes second nature.

The night before  Try to be in bed by 10 or 10:30pm (it can be a little later in the summer). The body renews and detoxifies itself between the hours of 10pm and 2am.

Rise and shine!  Generally, waking around sunrise is ideal. People who need a little more sleep are children, pregnant women, folks who feel exhausted or burned out, the elderly, or anyone who is sick. Upon waking, try not get out of bed right away. Try to be aware of your body, your breath, and a connection to gratitude. Ayurveda understands everyday as a diamond opportunity inspiring thanksgiving.

Scrape your tongue  One of my favorite Ayurvedic health tools! Buy a silver tongue scraper and scrape from back to front 10-12 times. The tongue is a mirror of your intestines. If you notice a thick coating, it may mean you may want to eat a more cleansing diet, as toxins may be present. Tongue scraping has been shown to help prevent diseases of the oral cavity, improves our ability to taste, gets rids of old food debris and prevents bad odor in the mouth. Plus, if you dont get rid of that gunk first thing in the morning, it will end up back in the body.

Brush your teeth  Check out an herbal/Ayurvedic toothpaste at your local health food store. Look for ones containing neem, triphala and/or peelu.

Washing the face, mouth, teeth and eyes   Splash some cool water on your face, or cleanse with a nice Ayurvedic soap containing neem or sandalwood. If your eyes feel dry or red, you can splash them with a little rose water. Massage your gums with warm sesame oil. This improves oral hygiene, prevents bad breath, boosts circulation in the gums and helps us maintain strong healthy teeth.

Drink warm lemon water  Squeezing half a fresh lemon into some warm water will help to wash the GI tract, flush out the kidneys and stimulates good bowel health. If your digestion feels slow, add a splash of cayenne or 1/2 tsp. of ginger root powder.

Nature calls   Going to the bathroom upon waking will help clear your digestive system. A healthy “motion” will have a soft brown log quality, little odor, and will be well-formed (like a banana). Undigested food, foul smell, mucous, blood, excessive dryness or “pellet-like” quality, as well as “sinkage” indicates digestive imbalance. Altering diet, lifestyle and using herbs will help better this.

Get oily   Self-massage, or abhyanga, is one of our best allies for radiance. In fact, the old texts say its better to pay the “oil man” today than the doctor tomorrow. Massaging your skin daily nourishes and soothes the nervous system, stimulates lymphatic flow and aids in detoxification. It also improves circulation, boosts your vitality, and makes you feel more balanced emotionally and mentally. Use a high-quality organic oil such as sesame, sunflower, or coconut. Warm the oil in your hands, then rub down, making sure not to skip any parts. Let the oil soak in for at least 20 minutes and then shower.

Meditation, prayer, devotion   I like to meditate after I’m drenched out in my warm oil.

Get your body moving   Do some exercise that suits your mood and the season. When done regularly, exercise grounds us, boosts the digestive fire, and burns up any extra fat and toxicity. Adding yoga to your routine will open and clear your energy channels, as well as your physical body.

Bathe  Use non-toxic, all-natural soaps without chemicals. Look for soaps with sandalwood, neem, and other skin-friendly herbs.

Nourish your belly  Eat a healthy, seasonally appropriate breakfast. The best time? Eating around 8-8:30 in the morning will give your agni (metabolic fire) time to be strong for lunchtime.

~Katie

This article originally appeared on the Yoga Journal Blog on February 1, 2013.

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Fierce Mother Goddess of Love

Thank you sweet Sianna, for your contribution to The Shakti School and Healthy Happy Sexy - Here is Sianna Sherman's take on the mythic story of Durga - Fierce Mother Goddess of Love

 

The Story of Durga

Once upon a time long ago, and not so long ago, because its happening right now, there was an evil demon named Mahisha, who often took the form of a bull. Day and night, for years and years, he did his acetic yogic practices with a strong ekagrata - one pointed focus, with the hopes that one day Lord Shiva would appear and grant him his wishes. After many years, finally Lord Shiva took notice and came to Mahisha.

“Okay,” Shiva said, “Your practices have been very steady - now what is it that you want?”

“Well,” said Mahisha, “I want to be invincible to all beings.”

“Fine, you shall have your wish,” Shiva replied, “but there has to be one caveat. You have to make yourself vulnerable to at least one class of beings.”

“Well, that's easy,” said Mahisha. “Let me vulnerable to the class of beings called woman.” A woman would never be able to touch me.

This was the first mistake Mahisha made.

Now, with his new super-powers, Mahisha goes about becoming this great lord of the Universe, and he begins to plunder and terrorize everything and everyone. Soon the world falls into total darkness and destruction.

Amidst the chaos and misery, the gods and goddesses decide to get together to see if they can come up with a plan for dealing with this demon who is taking over the world and wreaking havoc.

The gods decide to gather together the three most powerful gods of all -Brahma, Vishnua and Shiva. These three gods come together to create the Triadic heart, and then all the gods and goddesses stand around them in a great community circle. The three most powerful gods begin to focus very intensely, creating a beam of light out of their 3rd-eye, blasting this laser beam of light right out into the center of the circle where they converge. From this ignited center comes an opening and from the opening appears a form. The form is the most lustrous, shining, brilliant thing the world has ever seen. It is the Goddess Durga riding fiercely, mounted upon her great Lion.

With a start, she rides off the base of the great mountain, her four priestesses attendants by her side. Everyone is shocked, expecting her to rush to fight off the evil Mahisha.

“I’m going to my cave now,” she says. “For now I must do my own practices first. Let no one disturb me.”

Once in her cave, she begins her practice by chanting the name of her beloved Shiva, over and over again. “Nama Shivaya, Nama Shivaya, Nama Shivaya.”

Her practice is completely motivated from the feeling of love itself, and she chants to Shiva out of deep and pure love. As she is chanting, the mountains begin to blaze and and goodness and wholeness is again restored to the Universe.

But as the mountain begins to blaze, Mahisha begins to take notice.

“Who is this who dares to make the world a shining, glimmering place? I have plunged the world into darkness and I want it to stay that way!

And with that, Mahisha, in a rage, begins to shape shift. First he becomes a beggar, because he knows whoever has set the mountain ablaze must be very powerful. As he approaches Durga, he looks at her and says, “Oh, I am just a poor beggar asking for some alms, Great Goddess.”

But it is too late for him, because the very moment he sees her, he falls desperate to possess her as his own.

“Great Goddess, I will give you everything. I am the lord of the Universe, you have to be mine.”

Durga smiles knowingly and replies, “No,  I am only for the one for who is pure of Heart.  My practice, Mahisha, comes from a place of Love. Your practices come from a love for power. I want nothing to do with you!”

So she casts him away, leaving him utterly infuriated. Mahisha runs off in a rage, casting the world deeper into darkness.

The gods and goddesses come to Durga and say, “What is happening? Why do you play with this demon and let him run amuck when you are so powerful and you could easily just slay him in a fraction of a second?”

To which Durga replies, “Do not worry, for surely this great Demon Mahisha rushes against his dharma even faster than a moth rushing towards a flame. He himself will be the cause of his own demise.”

It is at this point that the great battle emerges. Mahisha arrives at Durga’s doorstep and takes the form of the Demon Bull - which represents our most stubborn, habitual patterns. The patterns that do not serve us.

But Durga can meet him in whatever way he shape-shifts. He shape-shifts into a lion, and a blue striped tiger, and a great elephant, and she just keeps meeting him and meeting him and meeting him. And then, he takes the shape of a man but he’s still a bull. And right at that juncture where he is half a man and half a bull - she slays him and she puts the soft underside of her foot on the side of his head and subdues the demon and the world is restored to total order.

 

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